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Redd
Yearling
 
United Kingdom
108 Posts |
Posted - 13/09/2012 : 18:55:48
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Hi,
I wanna get a new baby, maybe an albino or Mojave. Been looking at all the nice pics on here and websites etc... I even scheduled a visit to the local reptile dealer to check out what's on show and prepared to come home with something.
However, I told my girlfriend yesterday that I was thinking of adding another Royal to my current collection (of one ) and she flat out said "NO!"
The following exchange of words took place:
Me: "I'm getting another snake
Her: NO! You ain't moving in then!
Me: (silence)
Her: Seriously, if you get a snake you can't move in
Me: But I want one, I've done lots of planning. I have all the gear and the vivariums stack really nicely... they'll match the furniture
Her: NO!
Her (again): To be honest I don't even like your cats
Me: I don't think they like you... (Silence for about 4 minutes)... I'm getting one anyway
Her: I swear I'll *&@#ing punch you in a minute!
Me: I want one!
Me: I want one!
Me: Please let me get one!
Me: I'm gonna get one!
Me: Don't wanna live with you anyway!
Her: (Gave disgusted look, like I'd ripped out her heart and feed it to Redd)
End of conversation (I started watching The Big Bang Theory)
The thing is I need to persuade her. I actually think she's being serious. It's not like she dislikes Redd (my Royal), so I can't understand why she's so angry and against it.
Has anyone got any tips as to how I can persuade/convince her?
Your help and support greatly appreciated!
Kev |
Royal - Normal: Redd Royal - Mojave: Biscuit Royal - Piebald: Cornflake |
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badwool
Sub Adult
  
658 Posts |
Posted - 13/09/2012 : 19:00:04
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Remove your testicles from her pocket, and go get an albino :-) |
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coxcats
Sub Adult
  
United Kingdom
584 Posts |
Posted - 13/09/2012 : 19:07:15
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just do it. Then say 'omg! the snake fairy has been!' Then duck! |
Royals - Sas, Boris & Ria Boas - 1 called Titch until we can think of a name for her! Cats - Felix, Becky, Max & Willow |
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Baobab
Fully Grown Royal
   
United Kingdom
1393 Posts |
Posted - 13/09/2012 : 19:09:54
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Make her watch Kelfs "I want a snake" video. |
 Royal 8.0 - Piebald (Dipstick), Calico (Flake), Pinstripe (Copper), Kingpin het Hypo (Gabriel), Soulsucker (Morgoth), Clown (Ziggy), Phantom (Spook), Enchi( Stenchi) .................Royal 0.12 - Pastel (Elanor), Spider (Willow), Normal het pied (Loki),, Pastel Sterling Orange Hypo (Misty), Normal (WC parents) (Cinders), Pewter (Tinuviel), Yellowbelly (Kaiko), Mojave (Milly), Champagne (Bubbles), Fire (Flame), Karma paradox (Smudge), Amoretti (Rita).Boa's 2.2.1- Eowyn (common), Snuggles (BCC), Bonnie (BCC), Bear (BCL) & Baileys (Kahl strain)..........Western Hognose 0.0.2 - Timmy & Henry. Coastal*diamond carpet python 0.0.1- Pippin.........Brazilian Rainbow Boa 0.0.1 - Badger..........Granite Burmese 0.1 - Sally Reticulated python 2.2 - Saru (purple albino), Cheesy (Sunfire albino white), Titan (Platinum Titanium) & Gala (Sunfiretiger het albino)......Rat snake 1.0 Remmy.
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Baobab
Fully Grown Royal
   
United Kingdom
1393 Posts |
Posted - 13/09/2012 : 19:15:47
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Or next time she says she needs a break or steak or flake, swear blind you misheard her when you turn up with a snake. :-) |
 Royal 8.0 - Piebald (Dipstick), Calico (Flake), Pinstripe (Copper), Kingpin het Hypo (Gabriel), Soulsucker (Morgoth), Clown (Ziggy), Phantom (Spook), Enchi( Stenchi) .................Royal 0.12 - Pastel (Elanor), Spider (Willow), Normal het pied (Loki),, Pastel Sterling Orange Hypo (Misty), Normal (WC parents) (Cinders), Pewter (Tinuviel), Yellowbelly (Kaiko), Mojave (Milly), Champagne (Bubbles), Fire (Flame), Karma paradox (Smudge), Amoretti (Rita).Boa's 2.2.1- Eowyn (common), Snuggles (BCC), Bonnie (BCC), Bear (BCL) & Baileys (Kahl strain)..........Western Hognose 0.0.2 - Timmy & Henry. Coastal*diamond carpet python 0.0.1- Pippin.........Brazilian Rainbow Boa 0.0.1 - Badger..........Granite Burmese 0.1 - Sally Reticulated python 2.2 - Saru (purple albino), Cheesy (Sunfire albino white), Titan (Platinum Titanium) & Gala (Sunfiretiger het albino)......Rat snake 1.0 Remmy.
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carlb1981
Fully Grown Royal
   
United Kingdom
1527 Posts |
Posted - 13/09/2012 : 19:32:36
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Just get a few more that's what im doing my partner has gave up trying to tell me what to do snakes are like friends they are for life girlfriends come and go lol |
3.3.0 Royals,Yellow Belly -Marty,Fire YB-Fred,Mojave-Mo,Butter Pinstripe-Betty,Pewter-Newt,Normal-Molly 0.1.0 Snow Cornsnake- Lumi 1.1.0 Hypo Sonoran Dwarf Boa-Bart and Maggie 0.1.0 Albino Pine Snake-Ruby 1.0.0 Bredli Python-Brian 1.0.0 Western Hognose-Hal 1.0.0 Kayuadi Retic-Kaa 0.1.0 Honduran Milksnake-Jubbly 1.1.0 Salmon Boas-Hershey and Sam 0.2.0 Leopard Geckos-Spot and Chocolate 1.4.0 Dune Geckos 0.1.0 Beardie-Cookie 0.3.7 Tarantulas 0.0.1 Pandinus Imperator/emperor scorpion
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coxcats
Sub Adult
  
United Kingdom
584 Posts |
Posted - 13/09/2012 : 19:40:48
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I bet you are finding this all really helpful! Hahahaha |
Royals - Sas, Boris & Ria Boas - 1 called Titch until we can think of a name for her! Cats - Felix, Becky, Max & Willow |
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AndyJ80
Yearling
 
United Kingdom
385 Posts |
Posted - 13/09/2012 : 19:46:03
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Say you're gonna breed them and you'll take here away on a nice holiday with the proceedings lol |
1.0.0 CB12 Normal 1.0.0 CB12 Super Pastel 0.1.0 CB12 Mojave 1.0.0 CB10 Fire 0.1.0 CB10 Blackbee 0.1.0 CB10 Granite het albino 0.1.0 CB12 Vanilla 1.1.0 CB12 Pastel 100% het G Stripe 0.1.0 CB12 Enchi 1.1.0 CB12 het Caramel 0.1.0 CB12 het Pied 0.1.0 CB12 het Orange Ghost 1.0.0 CB10 Pastel het Orange Ghost 1.0.0 CB12 Cinnamon Genetic Stripe 0.1.0 CB13 Pastel
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blackskull
Fully Grown Royal
   
United Kingdom
1278 Posts |
Posted - 13/09/2012 : 20:00:44
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I had an ex say to me once its me or the snake (only had one at the time). The relationship didn't last much longer lol. Well i had sully longer than i knew her lol |
1.1 normal royal, sully, silver 0.1 pinstripe royal, penny 1.1 pastel royal, lars, clover 0.1 lesser royal, serenity 0.1 black pastel royal, betty 0.1 mojave royal, mavis 0.1 normal het clown 1.0 pastel het clown 1.0 nuclear, ned 1.0 super phantom 1.0 childrens python, myles 0.1 hog island boa 0.1 sonoran x boa, grace 0.0.1 mack snow leopard gecko, munchkin 4.1 cats, stan, dave, marble, binx, daisy 4.1 rabbits, mol, ted, bill, spud, alice 0.1 crazy cat/bunny lady of bridgwater, lucy |
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jonoandapril
Yearling
 
United Kingdom
455 Posts |
Posted - 14/09/2012 : 11:29:07
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I just turn up with them. She has fully given up now.
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1.1.0 corns (amel + carolina) 2.3.0 normal, fire, pastel and 2 bumblebee royals 1.0.0 jungle carpet python |
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Kelfezond
The bearded one
    
United Kingdom
4803 Posts |
Posted - 14/09/2012 : 11:40:44
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Interesting!
You have a few options, the first few are illegal in most places in the world so we'll skip right past those.
Firstly, Try to get her to explain why, just flat out saying "No" is rather disrespectful in my opinion, she can at least explain why.
Secondly, leave her, buy a python. |
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Lotabob
Royal Python Moderator
    
United Kingdom
5008 Posts |
Posted - 14/09/2012 : 13:13:40
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I suppose it really comes down to how hot is your girlfriend. I mean on a scale of 1 to 10.
See a 1-3 I'd say its a no brainer, buy a snake its a risk worth taking.
4-7 is more of a gamble but I'd still get the snake and just buy her something shiny to keep her happy.
8-10 why would you want a snake. Their nocturnal and well you'll be busy during those hours.
See every problem can be solved by maths. |

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matildasmum
Yearling
 
United Kingdom
176 Posts |
Posted - 14/09/2012 : 13:29:30
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lol, its the oposite in my house, im trying to persuade my man that i really need to get an albino burmese, he hasnt exactly said no but hasnt said yes either, i didnt think i would be the one wanting all the snakes but you just cant stop at one lol, they really do become like one of the family, im sure there has to be a comprimise there somewhere, or just do it..... thats what i would do, at the end of the day if she truely loves you then she wont break things off etc just because you have another snake, it aint like your planning on a 20ft burmese or retic lol, me on the other hand, that remains to be seen :) :) :) x
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Kelfezond
The bearded one
    
United Kingdom
4803 Posts |
Posted - 14/09/2012 : 13:37:12
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I know what you mean Matildasmum, I'm in the process of trying to get Adie to let me get a Retic :D |
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Redd
Yearling
 
United Kingdom
108 Posts |
Posted - 14/09/2012 : 19:45:37
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Wow! This is all very positive! Some not so positive!
In reply to how hot she is... Probably a 6/6.5.
I'm really working hard on getting her to believe I've always had two in mind...
You're right, a flat out no is rude. She doesn't see that. I just think next time she wants something, I'll deny her of it! Haha, that'll teach her!
It's only a royal right?
Thanks... Next steps? Any ideas? |
Royal - Normal: Redd Royal - Mojave: Biscuit Royal - Piebald: Cornflake |
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AndyJ80
Yearling
 
United Kingdom
385 Posts |
Posted - 14/09/2012 : 19:49:11
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Dinner in a fancy restaurant, then say "I have to ask you something....I've been planning this for a long time" lol |
1.0.0 CB12 Normal 1.0.0 CB12 Super Pastel 0.1.0 CB12 Mojave 1.0.0 CB10 Fire 0.1.0 CB10 Blackbee 0.1.0 CB10 Granite het albino 0.1.0 CB12 Vanilla 1.1.0 CB12 Pastel 100% het G Stripe 0.1.0 CB12 Enchi 1.1.0 CB12 het Caramel 0.1.0 CB12 het Pied 0.1.0 CB12 het Orange Ghost 1.0.0 CB10 Pastel het Orange Ghost 1.0.0 CB12 Cinnamon Genetic Stripe 0.1.0 CB13 Pastel
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Redd
Yearling
 
United Kingdom
108 Posts |
Posted - 14/09/2012 : 20:35:07
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She's seen my reply... Oops!
She's a 10, must've typed the numeracy part wrong!
Still getting my Royal though!
Kev |
Royal - Normal: Redd Royal - Mojave: Biscuit Royal - Piebald: Cornflake |
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carlb1981
Fully Grown Royal
   
United Kingdom
1527 Posts |
Posted - 15/09/2012 : 14:09:44
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Put a photo of the snake you want and one of the gf and we will all decide for you lol |
3.3.0 Royals,Yellow Belly -Marty,Fire YB-Fred,Mojave-Mo,Butter Pinstripe-Betty,Pewter-Newt,Normal-Molly 0.1.0 Snow Cornsnake- Lumi 1.1.0 Hypo Sonoran Dwarf Boa-Bart and Maggie 0.1.0 Albino Pine Snake-Ruby 1.0.0 Bredli Python-Brian 1.0.0 Western Hognose-Hal 1.0.0 Kayuadi Retic-Kaa 0.1.0 Honduran Milksnake-Jubbly 1.1.0 Salmon Boas-Hershey and Sam 0.2.0 Leopard Geckos-Spot and Chocolate 1.4.0 Dune Geckos 0.1.0 Beardie-Cookie 0.3.7 Tarantulas 0.0.1 Pandinus Imperator/emperor scorpion
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AndyJ80
Yearling
 
United Kingdom
385 Posts |
Posted - 15/09/2012 : 14:37:38
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^^^^ I like that idea ^^^^ I'm with you on this one Carl lol |
1.0.0 CB12 Normal 1.0.0 CB12 Super Pastel 0.1.0 CB12 Mojave 1.0.0 CB10 Fire 0.1.0 CB10 Blackbee 0.1.0 CB10 Granite het albino 0.1.0 CB12 Vanilla 1.1.0 CB12 Pastel 100% het G Stripe 0.1.0 CB12 Enchi 1.1.0 CB12 het Caramel 0.1.0 CB12 het Pied 0.1.0 CB12 het Orange Ghost 1.0.0 CB10 Pastel het Orange Ghost 1.0.0 CB12 Cinnamon Genetic Stripe 0.1.0 CB13 Pastel
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Redd
Yearling
 
United Kingdom
108 Posts |
Posted - 15/09/2012 : 15:19:10
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Should I?
What do you think? |
Royal - Normal: Redd Royal - Mojave: Biscuit Royal - Piebald: Cornflake |
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Danno91
Sub Adult
  
United Kingdom
521 Posts |
Posted - 16/09/2012 : 01:30:26
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Say you want to try breading so you need two, that worked for me, I know have 5 royals
To get my carpet python I said she would eat the left overs from the royals,
When im ready to get a rainbow boa, I'll say we the carpet python ain't Eating the left overs so its a no brainer,
I'm quite lucky I know what to say
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