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Redd
Yearling

United Kingdom
108 Posts

Posted - 13/09/2012 :  18:55:48  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Hi,

 

I wanna get a new baby, maybe an albino or Mojave. Been looking at all the nice pics on here and websites etc... I even scheduled a visit to the local reptile dealer to check out what's on show and prepared to come home with something.

 

However, I told my girlfriend yesterday that I was thinking of adding another Royal to my current collection (of one ) and she flat out said "NO!"

 

The following exchange of words took place:

 

Me: "I'm getting another snake

Her: NO! You ain't moving in then!

Me: (silence)

Her: Seriously, if you get a snake you can't move in

Me: But I want one, I've done lots of planning. I have all the gear and the vivariums stack really nicely... they'll match the furniture

Her: NO!

Her (again): To be honest I don't even like your cats

Me: I don't think they like you... (Silence for about 4 minutes)... I'm getting one anyway

Her: I swear I'll *&@#ing punch you in a minute!

Me: I want one!

Me: I want one!

Me: Please let me get one!

Me: I'm gonna get one!

Me: Don't wanna live with you anyway!

Her: (Gave disgusted look, like I'd ripped out her heart and feed it to Redd)

End of conversation (I started watching The Big Bang Theory)

 

The thing is I need to persuade her. I actually think she's being serious. It's not like she dislikes Redd (my Royal), so I can't understand why she's so angry and against it.

 

Has anyone got any tips as to how I can persuade/convince her?

 

Your help and support greatly appreciated!

 

Kev

Royal - Normal: Redd
Royal - Mojave: Biscuit
Royal - Piebald: Cornflake

badwool
Sub Adult

658 Posts

Posted - 13/09/2012 :  19:00:04  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Remove your testicles from her pocket, and go get an albino :-)

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coxcats
Sub Adult

United Kingdom
584 Posts

Posted - 13/09/2012 :  19:07:15  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
just do it. Then say 'omg! the snake fairy has been!' Then duck!

Royals - Sas, Boris & Ria
Boas - 1 called Titch until we can think of a name for her!
Cats - Felix, Becky, Max & Willow
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Baobab
Fully Grown Royal

United Kingdom
1393 Posts

Posted - 13/09/2012 :  19:09:54  Show Profile  Send Baobab an AOL message  Reply with Quote
Make her watch Kelfs "I want a snake" video.


Royal 8.0 - Piebald (Dipstick), Calico (Flake), Pinstripe (Copper), Kingpin het Hypo (Gabriel), Soulsucker (Morgoth), Clown (Ziggy), Phantom (Spook), Enchi( Stenchi) .................Royal 0.12 - Pastel (Elanor), Spider (Willow), Normal het pied (Loki),, Pastel Sterling Orange Hypo (Misty), Normal (WC parents) (Cinders), Pewter (Tinuviel), Yellowbelly (Kaiko), Mojave (Milly), Champagne (Bubbles), Fire (Flame), Karma paradox (Smudge), Amoretti (Rita).Boa's 2.2.1- Eowyn (common), Snuggles (BCC), Bonnie (BCC), Bear (BCL) & Baileys (Kahl strain)..........Western Hognose 0.0.2 - Timmy & Henry.
Coastal*diamond carpet python 0.0.1- Pippin.........Brazilian Rainbow Boa 0.0.1 - Badger..........Granite Burmese 0.1 - Sally
Reticulated python 2.2 - Saru (purple albino), Cheesy (Sunfire albino white), Titan (Platinum Titanium) & Gala (Sunfiretiger het albino)......Rat snake 1.0 Remmy.
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Baobab
Fully Grown Royal

United Kingdom
1393 Posts

Posted - 13/09/2012 :  19:15:47  Show Profile  Send Baobab an AOL message  Reply with Quote
Or next time she says she needs a break or steak or flake, swear blind you misheard her when you turn up with a snake.
:-)


Royal 8.0 - Piebald (Dipstick), Calico (Flake), Pinstripe (Copper), Kingpin het Hypo (Gabriel), Soulsucker (Morgoth), Clown (Ziggy), Phantom (Spook), Enchi( Stenchi) .................Royal 0.12 - Pastel (Elanor), Spider (Willow), Normal het pied (Loki),, Pastel Sterling Orange Hypo (Misty), Normal (WC parents) (Cinders), Pewter (Tinuviel), Yellowbelly (Kaiko), Mojave (Milly), Champagne (Bubbles), Fire (Flame), Karma paradox (Smudge), Amoretti (Rita).Boa's 2.2.1- Eowyn (common), Snuggles (BCC), Bonnie (BCC), Bear (BCL) & Baileys (Kahl strain)..........Western Hognose 0.0.2 - Timmy & Henry.
Coastal*diamond carpet python 0.0.1- Pippin.........Brazilian Rainbow Boa 0.0.1 - Badger..........Granite Burmese 0.1 - Sally
Reticulated python 2.2 - Saru (purple albino), Cheesy (Sunfire albino white), Titan (Platinum Titanium) & Gala (Sunfiretiger het albino)......Rat snake 1.0 Remmy.
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carlb1981
Fully Grown Royal

United Kingdom
1527 Posts

Posted - 13/09/2012 :  19:32:36  Show Profile  Visit carlb1981's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Just get a few more that's what im doing my partner has gave up trying to tell me what to do snakes are like friends they are for life girlfriends come and go lol

3.3.0 Royals,Yellow Belly -Marty,Fire YB-Fred,Mojave-Mo,Butter Pinstripe-Betty,Pewter-Newt,Normal-Molly
0.1.0 Snow Cornsnake- Lumi
1.1.0 Hypo Sonoran Dwarf Boa-Bart and Maggie
0.1.0 Albino Pine Snake-Ruby
1.0.0 Bredli Python-Brian
1.0.0 Western Hognose-Hal
1.0.0 Kayuadi Retic-Kaa
0.1.0 Honduran Milksnake-Jubbly
1.1.0 Salmon Boas-Hershey and Sam
0.2.0 Leopard Geckos-Spot and Chocolate
1.4.0 Dune Geckos
0.1.0 Beardie-Cookie
0.3.7 Tarantulas
0.0.1 Pandinus Imperator/emperor scorpion
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coxcats
Sub Adult

United Kingdom
584 Posts

Posted - 13/09/2012 :  19:40:48  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I bet you are finding this all really helpful! Hahahaha

Royals - Sas, Boris & Ria
Boas - 1 called Titch until we can think of a name for her!
Cats - Felix, Becky, Max & Willow
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AndyJ80
Yearling

United Kingdom
385 Posts

Posted - 13/09/2012 :  19:46:03  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Say you're gonna breed them and you'll take here away on a nice holiday with the proceedings lol

1.0.0 CB12 Normal
1.0.0 CB12 Super Pastel
0.1.0 CB12 Mojave
1.0.0 CB10 Fire
0.1.0 CB10 Blackbee
0.1.0 CB10 Granite het albino
0.1.0 CB12 Vanilla
1.1.0 CB12 Pastel 100% het G Stripe
0.1.0 CB12 Enchi
1.1.0 CB12 het Caramel
0.1.0 CB12 het Pied
0.1.0 CB12 het Orange Ghost
1.0.0 CB10 Pastel het Orange Ghost
1.0.0 CB12 Cinnamon Genetic Stripe
0.1.0 CB13 Pastel

more on the way
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blackskull
Fully Grown Royal

United Kingdom
1278 Posts

Posted - 13/09/2012 :  20:00:44  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I had an ex say to me once its me or the snake (only had one at the time). The relationship didn't last much longer lol. Well i had sully longer than i knew her lol

1.1 normal royal, sully, silver
0.1 pinstripe royal, penny
1.1 pastel royal, lars, clover
0.1 lesser royal, serenity
0.1 black pastel royal, betty
0.1 mojave royal, mavis
0.1 normal het clown
1.0 pastel het clown
1.0 nuclear, ned
1.0 super phantom
1.0 childrens python, myles
0.1 hog island boa
0.1 sonoran x boa, grace
0.0.1 mack snow leopard gecko, munchkin
4.1 cats, stan, dave, marble, binx, daisy
4.1 rabbits, mol, ted, bill, spud, alice
0.1 crazy cat/bunny lady of bridgwater, lucy
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jonoandapril
Yearling

United Kingdom
455 Posts

Posted - 14/09/2012 :  11:29:07  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I just turn up with them. She has fully given up now.

1.1.0 corns (amel + carolina)
2.3.0 normal, fire, pastel and 2 bumblebee royals
1.0.0 jungle carpet python
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Kelfezond
The bearded one

United Kingdom
4803 Posts

Posted - 14/09/2012 :  11:40:44  Show Profile  Visit Kelfezond's Homepage  Click to see Kelfezond's MSN Messenger address  Reply with Quote
Interesting!

You have a few options, the first few are illegal in most places in the world so we'll skip right past those.

Firstly, Try to get her to explain why, just flat out saying "No" is rather disrespectful in my opinion, she can at least explain why.

Secondly, leave her, buy a python.

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Lotabob
Royal Python Moderator

United Kingdom
5008 Posts

Posted - 14/09/2012 :  13:13:40  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
I suppose it really comes down to how hot is your girlfriend. I mean on a scale of 1 to 10.

See a 1-3 I'd say its a no brainer, buy a snake its a risk worth taking.

4-7 is more of a gamble but I'd still get the snake and just buy her something shiny to keep her happy.

8-10 why would you want a snake. Their nocturnal and well you'll be busy during those hours.

See every problem can be solved by maths.


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matildasmum
Yearling

United Kingdom
176 Posts

Posted - 14/09/2012 :  13:29:30  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
lol, its the oposite in my house, im trying to persuade my man that i really need to get an albino burmese, he hasnt exactly said no but hasnt said yes either, i didnt think i would be the one wanting all the snakes but you just cant stop at one lol, they really do become like one of the family, im sure there has to be a comprimise there somewhere, or just do it..... thats what i would do, at the end of the day if she truely loves you then she wont break things off etc just because you have another snake, it aint like your planning on a 20ft burmese or retic lol, me on the other hand, that remains to be seen :) :) :) x

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Kelfezond
The bearded one

United Kingdom
4803 Posts

Posted - 14/09/2012 :  13:37:12  Show Profile  Visit Kelfezond's Homepage  Click to see Kelfezond's MSN Messenger address  Reply with Quote
I know what you mean Matildasmum, I'm in the process of trying to get Adie to let me get a Retic :D

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Redd
Yearling

United Kingdom
108 Posts

Posted - 14/09/2012 :  19:45:37  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Wow! This is all very positive! Some not so positive!

In reply to how hot she is... Probably a 6/6.5.

I'm really working hard on getting her to believe I've always had two in mind...

You're right, a flat out no is rude. She doesn't see that. I just think next time she wants something, I'll deny her of it! Haha, that'll teach her!

It's only a royal right?

Thanks... Next steps? Any ideas?

Royal - Normal: Redd
Royal - Mojave: Biscuit
Royal - Piebald: Cornflake
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AndyJ80
Yearling

United Kingdom
385 Posts

Posted - 14/09/2012 :  19:49:11  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Dinner in a fancy restaurant, then say "I have to ask you something....I've been planning this for a long time" lol

1.0.0 CB12 Normal
1.0.0 CB12 Super Pastel
0.1.0 CB12 Mojave
1.0.0 CB10 Fire
0.1.0 CB10 Blackbee
0.1.0 CB10 Granite het albino
0.1.0 CB12 Vanilla
1.1.0 CB12 Pastel 100% het G Stripe
0.1.0 CB12 Enchi
1.1.0 CB12 het Caramel
0.1.0 CB12 het Pied
0.1.0 CB12 het Orange Ghost
1.0.0 CB10 Pastel het Orange Ghost
1.0.0 CB12 Cinnamon Genetic Stripe
0.1.0 CB13 Pastel

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Redd
Yearling

United Kingdom
108 Posts

Posted - 14/09/2012 :  20:35:07  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
She's seen my reply... Oops!

She's a 10, must've typed the numeracy part wrong!

Still getting my Royal though!

Kev

Royal - Normal: Redd
Royal - Mojave: Biscuit
Royal - Piebald: Cornflake
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carlb1981
Fully Grown Royal

United Kingdom
1527 Posts

Posted - 15/09/2012 :  14:09:44  Show Profile  Visit carlb1981's Homepage  Reply with Quote
Put a photo of the snake you want and one of the gf and we will all decide for you lol

3.3.0 Royals,Yellow Belly -Marty,Fire YB-Fred,Mojave-Mo,Butter Pinstripe-Betty,Pewter-Newt,Normal-Molly
0.1.0 Snow Cornsnake- Lumi
1.1.0 Hypo Sonoran Dwarf Boa-Bart and Maggie
0.1.0 Albino Pine Snake-Ruby
1.0.0 Bredli Python-Brian
1.0.0 Western Hognose-Hal
1.0.0 Kayuadi Retic-Kaa
0.1.0 Honduran Milksnake-Jubbly
1.1.0 Salmon Boas-Hershey and Sam
0.2.0 Leopard Geckos-Spot and Chocolate
1.4.0 Dune Geckos
0.1.0 Beardie-Cookie
0.3.7 Tarantulas
0.0.1 Pandinus Imperator/emperor scorpion
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AndyJ80
Yearling

United Kingdom
385 Posts

Posted - 15/09/2012 :  14:37:38  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
^^^^ I like that idea ^^^^
I'm with you on this one Carl lol

1.0.0 CB12 Normal
1.0.0 CB12 Super Pastel
0.1.0 CB12 Mojave
1.0.0 CB10 Fire
0.1.0 CB10 Blackbee
0.1.0 CB10 Granite het albino
0.1.0 CB12 Vanilla
1.1.0 CB12 Pastel 100% het G Stripe
0.1.0 CB12 Enchi
1.1.0 CB12 het Caramel
0.1.0 CB12 het Pied
0.1.0 CB12 het Orange Ghost
1.0.0 CB10 Pastel het Orange Ghost
1.0.0 CB12 Cinnamon Genetic Stripe
0.1.0 CB13 Pastel

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Redd
Yearling

United Kingdom
108 Posts

Posted - 15/09/2012 :  15:19:10  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
Should I?

What do you think?

Royal - Normal: Redd
Royal - Mojave: Biscuit
Royal - Piebald: Cornflake
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Danno91
Sub Adult

United Kingdom
521 Posts

Posted - 16/09/2012 :  01:30:26  Show Profile  Click to see Danno91's MSN Messenger address  Reply with Quote
Say you want to try breading so you need two, that worked for me, I know have 5 royals

To get my carpet python I said she would eat the left overs from the royals,

When im ready to get a rainbow boa, I'll say we the carpet python ain't Eating the left overs so its a no brainer,

I'm quite lucky I know what to say


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